I will honestly say i don’t care how you look. How superficial do you think i am? People think so arrogantly of themselves. It’s all so shallow now. “High standards” are all bullshit. The basic “standards” are the only things you actually need:
- You love that person, and they love you back.
- They treat you the way you want them to treat you, and you do the same.
- You’re happy.
A person shouldn’t decline the offer to get to know someone because of their appearance. That person could miss out on the hobbies they share, the music they could listen to together, the words and laughs that could be exchanged, etc. But most importantly, both of those people would miss out on this beautiful and blissful happiness, all because one person decided to deem the other one unworthy.
All in all in my opinion, being arrogant about yourself, or being “superficial” robs happiness from not only yourself, but also from another person. So don’t trust your eyes, trust your heart, that’s it.
It’s posted and floating somewhere on Tumblr learn from it.
“People should fall in love with their eyes closed.” - Andy Warhol